Tempting Fate

Thursday, August 31, 2006

Loneliness - Britain's changing nation

It's said that there are more than 7 million people living on their own now in Britain. Never have we as a country experienced this before and real loneliness can lead to all sorts of problems, including serious illness.

Have you ever sat around over a weekend, to find that the only person you perhaps have talked to was the assistant in the shop you visited and that was only to take your money? As more and more people leave the areas they grew up in, as well as family and friends they were familiar with, our nation is becoming more stressed, depressed but eager to overcome these problems. And it's not just older people - it's affecting people as young as 20. So how can you be comfortable being alone, which is so different from being lonely.

The conventional ways of joining a new club, society, taking up a new hobby or even in fact getting yourself a dog - are all tried and tested ways that could work. But what if your lonely for a new partner. You have many friends but when you close your door of an evening, it's then that you may feel at your loneliest. With no one to talk over the day, the news, your feelings with, this is the classic time that single people particularly wonder how they could find someone special in their lives. Unfortunately nowadays there is no special place to go, to meet decent people, as its so much down to luck, fate and circumstances, which sometimes need pushing a little to succeed!

That's why Tempting Fate was founded - it's the thinking, quality persons way to meet that someone special in your life. We meet everyone before anyone becomes a member, to make sure we really can help them. With many success stories already and a Wedding Reception to go to this weekend, from a couple introduced by us last August, Tempting Fate could be your answer too, at least to meet some interesting new people in your life.

Monday, August 07, 2006

Single Living

I've recently read an article about the joys of being together but actually not living together. For those over the age of 45 and who've been through messy, costly divorces this might well be the answer for your own security. So often we give up homes and possessions to share with someone else, only to find down the line that it's just not going to work long term. So how would you feel being close with a special person but living in your own home? Dating and the single's market is fraught with various surprises along the way but everyone should be ultra careful when deciding firstly to meet strangers and secondly not to give up anything unless youre absolutely sure of the person. Too many times I've heard about dreadful stories on internet dating with many who pretend to be single but in fact are with someone already. The lure of an annonymous creation of a character is just too great for some and if youre not sure - always get someone's home phone number - check it out, and make sure you meet somewhere public, as well as telling a friend to phone you after a while to check youre ok.

At Tempting Fate - the quality, successful Personal Introduction Service - the dangers are removed as everyone is seen and we do have certain conditions which we check for any potential members. So remember it should be fun dating and being with someone. The time it's not is the time to consider your future.