Tempting Fate

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Older males and Choice

It is a known researched fact that at the moment in Britain there are at least 6 females to every male over the age of 50. Why? Well hard to definitely determine except that men do seem to die younger than women but in the 50 to 60 age group this shouldn't apply.

The Association of British Introduction Agencies have done their own surveys and have categorically found that all over Britain the 6 females to every male ratio is accurate. This is backed up by many people I talk to and meet in my business. Women are saying that singles holidays they go on are full of women and hardly any men. Any dancing classes they attend are overloaded with females and the lucky few males getting quite frantic with the line of women waiting to dance with them. Many other social events such as speed dating and dining clubs have also experienced this. Is it because men don't feel they need to do anything other than their usual everyday life, to be able to meet that special person? Is it because they may feel it isn't macho to try other ways of meeting the opposite sex? A lot of men of course usually want to meet younger women and this in itself causes the lack of available older men around too.

So what do women do when they reach this stage of their lives and are single. Well firstly they have to start taking more care of themselves. Looking and feeling good are paramount when trying to meet others because quite frankly the competition is high. Secondly they must try doing different things in their lives such as joining various groups, societies, evening classes and take up new hobbies, sports and generally expanding what they enjoy doing. By increasing the activies in their lives they are increasing the chances of meeting different people and maybe finding that special person. Of course a reputable, good quality personal Introduction Service such as ours Tempting Fate can help too. In fact a couple in their 50's I matched the previous year got married last summer and I was invited to the Reception.

So try firstly looking at yourself, expanding your lifestyle and of course try Tempting Fate!